{"id":50,"date":"2005-04-16T11:11:40","date_gmt":"2005-04-16T16:11:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/?p=50"},"modified":"2005-04-16T11:11:40","modified_gmt":"2005-04-16T16:11:40","slug":"Parent Perspectives: On Being Tired","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/?p=50","title":{"rendered":"Parent Perspectives: On Being Tired"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve got several other things I should be doing, but I just had to put these deep thoughts into cyberspace:)<\/p>\n<p>After becoming a parent, you have a whole new understanding of the word &#8220;tired&#8221;.  I am a person whose body has always needed good quality rest.  I was never one who could pull an &#8220;all-nighter&#8221;, and usually my evenings don&#8217;t go any later than 11pm.  I&#8217;ve had seasons in my life where I experienced tired in new ways.  I was sick for about 10 months and felt exhausted and extreme fatigue.  That was one kind of tired.  When I was pregnant, I was VERY tired.  My body just felt like it couldn&#8217;t handle creating a new life and carrying on my own.  Thank goodness for a quiet office to take a brief midday nap in while working!  Brian and I experienced a completely different sort of tired\/exhausted\/zombie status feeling in the first 3 weeks after Analise arrived.  The only way to understand that is to live it&#8230; But our bodies adjusted, and Analise started sleeping better, and you really learn to appreciate sleep.  I had always said that I would never make it if my baby wasn&#8217;t sleeping through the night by 6 weeks (when I went back to work).  Amazingly enough, as she continued with a 2:30-3am feeding, my  body adjusted.  I was tired, but life went on.  We&#8217;ve had quite a few nights where Analise slept through the night.  We&#8217;ve even determined that &#8220;sleeping through the night&#8221; is logically until about 4am&#8230; since she goes to bed at 7:30!  She&#8217;ll wake up, come to bed with us, I&#8217;ll nurse her really quick, and she&#8217;ll be back to sleep before I take her back to bed.  Then she&#8217;ll sleep until 6:30 or 7.  <br \/>\nLast night was ROUGH.  Tom &#038; Beverly put her to bed at about 7:30, we got home and were in bed by 10.  Analise woke up at 11:30, 2, and 5.  (Those are all guesstimates, and there may well have been another wakening in there, because both Brian and I were completely out of it.  I guess I think now that &#8220;tired&#8221; is just a part of parenting.  I&#8217;m not low on energy.  There will be nights like this.  There will be nights of solid sleep &#8211; and BOY do they feel GOOD!  But after 9 1\/2 months of interrupted sleep, my body&#8217;s learned to make the best of it and life goes on.  And it&#8217;s all forgotten when Analise curls up in my lap, sucks on her thumb and falls asleep on my chest&#8230; for a 2 hour nap, during which I can enjoy a brief rest!:)<\/p>\n<p><B>HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND!<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve got several other things I should be doing, but I just had to put these deep thoughts into cyberspace:) After becoming a parent, you have a whole new understanding of the word &#8220;tired&#8221;. I am a person whose body has always needed good quality rest. I was never one who could pull an &#8220;all-nighter&#8221;, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pkzLf-O","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=50"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=50"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=50"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=50"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}