{"id":626,"date":"2008-07-29T21:57:35","date_gmt":"2008-07-30T02:57:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/?p=626"},"modified":"2008-07-29T21:57:35","modified_gmt":"2008-07-30T02:57:35","slug":"Teaching Preschoolers about God and My Not-To-Do List","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/?p=626","title":{"rendered":"Teaching Preschoolers about God and My Not-To-Do List"},"content":{"rendered":"

The first good quote from a ChristianityToday.com article<\/a>:<\/p>\n

\n

What’s a good way to teach preschoolers about God? <\/strong><\/p>\n

God talk was a natural part of our family life.
\nWhile Matt was growing up, God time wasn’t separate. Studies have shown
\nthat a conversation with Mom about God is the #1 faith influencer for
\nkids. And a conversation with Dad is #2. Some moms feel guilty they’re
\nnot doing family devotions or that they don’t know the Bible well. Lots
\nof storybooks and other resources are available to help in those areas.
\nBut a conversation about God with our kids has such an impact on their
\nfaith. Even asking something such as, "Why do you think God made
\nspiders or snakes?" It’s OK for our kids to know we don’t have it all
\nfigured out and for us to ask questions that don’t have answers. Faith
\nis as much about questions as it is about answers. <\/p>\n

It’s also about sharing what God’s doing. Every
\nsummer we have a program at Group where more than 20,000 youth and
\ntheir leaders venture across the U.S. to serve others. These
\nparticipants are always on the lookout for what God’s doing where
\nthey’re serving. We call these "God sightings." What if as a mom you
\nwatched for "God sightings" with your preschoolers, then talked with
\nthem about what God’s doing in your life? I believe it would be a
\npowerful experience.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

The second is called My Not-To-Do List.  Great thoughts!<\/p>\n

\n

Life \u2026 and clutter. I think of clutter as anything that takes up space
\nbut doesn’t add value or meaning to my life or to the lives of those I
\nlove. And I think of life, particularly the abundant kind, as anything
\nthat adds<\/em> value or meaning to my life and to those I love.
\nJesus talked about having abundant life in John 10:10, "I have come
\nthat they may have life, and have it to the full."…<\/p>\n

A cluttered mind means I over think, over react,
\nover analyze, over worry and over commit. How do I declutter my mind? I
\ngave myself permission to let go and have the following "not-to-do"
\nlist:<\/p>\n

    \n
  • Not to feel guilty<\/strong> for saying "no" to something that’s good, but not right, for me or my family.<\/li>\n
  • Not to fear<\/strong> about how well-adjusted my kids will be as adults.<\/li>\n
  • Not to hang<\/strong> something new in my closet without taking something out.<\/li>\n
  • Not to feel over-responsible<\/strong> for the well being of everyone else.<\/li>\n
  • Not to answer<\/strong> the phone after 7 p.m.<\/li>\n
  • Not to feel compelled<\/strong> to say "yes" just because I’ve been invited.<\/li>\n
  • Not to schedule<\/strong> busy activities on Sundays.<\/li>\n
  • Not to worry<\/strong> about what I missed at last week’s play group with the girls.<\/li>\n
  • Not to buy<\/strong> something just because it’s on sale.<\/li>\n
  • Not to think<\/strong> I can make a dinner that
    \nrequires more than three ingredients, do the laundry, clean the house
    \nand spend quality time with my kids all in the same day.<\/li>\n
  • Not to ruminate<\/strong> over my mistakes or the mistakes of others.<\/li>\n
  • Not to compare<\/strong> myself with other moms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    The more we give ourselves permission "not to do,"
    \nthe more we’ll free ourselves to live a more centered, abundant life.
    \nThe next time you grab a piece of paper to make your to-do list,
    \nconsider first what not to do! <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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