{"id":654,"date":"2008-09-12T22:08:45","date_gmt":"2008-09-13T03:08:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/?p=654"},"modified":"2008-09-12T22:08:45","modified_gmt":"2008-09-13T03:08:45","slug":"the-elusive-family-dinner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/?p=654","title":{"rendered":"The elusive family dinner"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I dream of the quintessential family dinner around our table.\u00a0 Good, healthy, home-cooked meal, one of my kids praying before we eat, everyone happy, food staying on plates, everyone actually eating the same food, kids staying at the table with us &#8211; peacefully &#8211; until they&#8217;re done.\u00a0 And maybe even a delicous family dessert to top it all off.<\/p>\n<p>Sounds great.\u00a0 And yes, it does sound a bit impossible, especially with a 2 and a 4 year old who may be a bit more lively than most kids.\u00a0 Dinner has been a growing frustration of mine for any number of reasons&#8230; picky 4 year old, messy 2 year old, kids not wanting to sit.<\/p>\n<p>But it happened last night.\u00a0 My dream family dinner.\u00a0 It was so lovely, and it was even better than I could have imagined.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d cooked (well, half-cooked) a good meal &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/find.myrecipes.com\/recipes\/recipefinder.dyn?action=displayRecipe&amp;recipe_id=1119556\">Mushroom Orzo Rissoto<\/a> (super easy, very tasty, and even though I don&#8217;t like mushrooms, Brian does, and I knew he&#8217;d be pleased and they were easy enough for me to pick out) and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.toonesalive.com\/blog\/family\/?p=359\">Turkey Spinach Burgers<\/a> (frozen from another evening&#8230; I love when cooking one night makes another night easier!).<\/p>\n<p>Analise prayed for our meal, which she often isn&#8217;t in the mood to do.\u00a0 But she&#8217;s been the &#8220;prayer leader&#8221; as her job at school this week, so she was excited when we named her the prayer leader for dinner tonight.<\/p>\n<p>We put the burgers, no buns necessary, on the pasta, and it was TASTY.\u00a0 The kids loved the pasta, and surprise, surprise&#8230; Josiah liked the mushrooms!\u00a0 He ate one after another from my plate.\u00a0 Seriously, my heart was bursting that one of my kids was liking something I don&#8217;t!\u00a0 Analise even gamely tried a bite.\u00a0 I was very proud of both of them.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, everyone was in a good mood, they ate well, we had nice fun conversation with them, and we all stayed at the table through the whole meal.\u00a0 The kids shared a piece of chocolate cake, and everyone was pleased.<\/p>\n<p>It was wonderful.\u00a0 I know it&#8217;s possible now.\u00a0 I&#8217;m not going to get frustrated and grumpy when it doesn&#8217;t happen, though.\u00a0 They&#8217;re just preschoolers, and we&#8217;ll work on it bit by bit.\u00a0 I know it can happen, it will happen when all the stars align, and when it does, it will be lovely and well worth it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I dream of the quintessential family dinner around our table.\u00a0 Good, healthy, home-cooked meal, one of my kids praying before we eat, everyone happy, food staying on plates, everyone actually eating the same food, kids staying at the table with us &#8211; 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